Before I moved to where I am now, I lived next to a dysfunctional and dangerous family. The son was a violent drug pusher, the father an over-protective security guard and the mother a worn out victim that tried to stay out of things. To make matters worse, the father had some way of knowing in advance when the local police had a bust scheduled for his house.
Being pregnant with Tabitha at the time, it was all too much to deal with all at once. My solution was to use my magick to get out of the area and find a lovely home near the beach.
I try to put those times out of my mind and I’m successful most of the time, at least until I receive emails from people in similar situations asking for advice. Naturally, my first response is, “Get out if you can and find someplace safer that you love.” Sadly, many aren’t in the position to just pack up and leave; they must stay where they are, at least for a time.
As I reviewed still another email about a similar scenario, I thought it would be an excellent thing to bring before the goddess Hecate.
After you get the authorities involved, you need to magickally address three areas:
First you must ensure that you, your family and the house are safe. Since windows and doors are the entry points into your haven, it’s imperative that these are magickally made inaccessible or are fortified with magickal traps.
Ensure the law of attraction is working for you
Since you attract that which you focus on, you must cleanse away all the negative feelings you have towards your neighbour. It’s a tall order and it may take some time, but it’s essential. If you remain angry, fearful or anxious in any way, you give your power away to the neighbour and you won’t be able to perform the third important step to fully solve your problem.
Affect the actions of your neighbour
You can do this either aggressively with a hex or passively with a blessing. Both hexing and blessing have their merits; you will have to choose which is better for your current circumstances.
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